Intemperance swingers players party

SINGLE MEN

PAYMENT REQUIREMENT: $150 cash on arrival. Non refundable REPEATED NO SHOWS/CANCELLATIONS: Will require payment in full via Bak Transfer before the event . These payments are non refundable/non transferable. PHOTO VALIDATION REQUIRED: Our private events are by invitation only. Single men will need to send a current selfie holding a handwritten note with details we’ll provide when you message us. This helps us confirm you’re genuine and keeps the event safe and enjoyable for everyone. We welcome single men who are genuine, respectful, and bring a positive, easygoing energy. It’s not about looks or ego—it’s about connection, good vibes, and being part of an experience where everyone feels valued. Paying to attend does not create entitlement—every guest has made the same commitment and retains full autonomy over their own body. We’re here to create a space where everyone feels respected, valued, and free to enjoy the night at their own pace. WE ARE LOOKING FOR MEN WHO:
  • Accept being told no without requiring an explanation
  • Can hold a conversation
  • Follow the rules
  • Follow host instructions
  • Can be respectful at all times
  • Always ask before you touch
  • Do not follow ladies around uncomfortably.
  • Are not visibly under the influence of drugs and who drink responsibly
  • Are presentable and hygienic
  • Aged 30+
INSIDER TIPS: Remember, first impressions count.
  • Shower before coming, put some nice clothes on (nothing too fancy but no shorts or thongs), a little cologne.
  • Tidy your areas. A little manscaping is always nice
  • Introduce yourself socially.
  • Be relaxed and genuine.
  • Just chat to people naturally, like you would in any other setting—no pressure or expectations. There is nothing worse than a single guy who talks to no one and then shoves his pelvis in a womans face once she becomes naked and vulnerable.
  • Nerves can be sexy. It's ok to be a little shy if you have not a lot of experience in the area of swinger's parties. Your hosts will help you feel at home and comfortable in no time.
  • Be kind when you say no. A simple no thanks will suffice. Some other replies could be " Not right now, maybe later" or " I am not ready to play right now but happy to chat and say hello instead if you like?"
  • One of the most important tips Michelle feels has been lost on the scene since covid: Women who attend whether single or in a couple are Goddesses and Queens. If she does not feel comfortable, sexy and appreciated she will likely not want to play. It is in your best interest to attend as a single male with no noticeable self-interest. You will likely have a much better experience this way. We all know why you are there. Be a gentleman about it.
  • SPEAK UP, SPEAK TO YOUR HOST IF ANYONE IS MAKING YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. SPEAK UP IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL LATER IN THE NIGHT OR THE NEXT DAY AS WE CANNOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT THEN