ON THIS PAGE: 1) About intemperance 2) About your hosts
About INTEMPERANCE
INTEMPERANCE MEANING:
Intemperance refers to excessive or immoderate indulgence
The evening began with an air of refinement—crystal glasses clinking in toasts, soft laughter drifting through the candlelit room, and an impeccable spread of gourmet dishes laid out like art. Conversations were poised, gestures graceful, and every indulgence appeared effortless. Yet, as the night unfolded, the lines between sophistication and excess began to blur. Wine flowed a little too freely, voices grew a touch louder, and restraint quietly slipped away, replaced by the warmth of shared indulgence.
By midnight, elegance and intemperance had become inseparable. Jackets were draped over chairs, heels were abandoned under the table, and the once-measured sips had turned into carefree gulps. The charm of the evening was not lost, but rather transformed—laughter now came unfiltered, and the barriers of formality dissolved into a night of pure, uninhibited enjoyment. What had begun as a picture of poise had blossomed into something more raw yet equally beautiful: a celebration of life’s pleasures, embraced without apology.
(Cough, Cough) Let me interpret this for you!!
We are the newest House Players Party in town!!
This means we like to play!
We do welcome any body so long as you are respectful and follow the usual swinger etiquette. Our expected etiquette can be located on our Etiquette Page Here
Our party age bracket is most suited for people aged 30+.
Make the night what you want the night to be.
Please see our FAQ page here more details.
We do not have crystal glasses however there will be plastic cups available for your BYO (Please drink responsibly)
Soft Drinks provided
Nibbles provided
Condoms and Lube provided
A few towels provided however do recommend bringing your own
The atmosphere is electric with loud laughter and excitement, as everyone embraces the fun of the night. Drinks flow freely and the energy is contagious. People shed their jackets and shoes, letting the music and good vibes take over. It’s a night where the laughter echoes, the fun never stops, and every moment feels alive with joy.
MEET YOUR HOSTS
We are Doug (62yo) and Michelle (42yo). Both on the scene since 2016, we met at a swingers party in 2017 and were married in January 2024. Our lifestyle has continued strong throughout.
Michelle is the elegant force behind Intemperance—both the mind and energy that brings each experience to life. She’ll be your point of contact, whether connecting online or over the phone, ensuring every detail is handled with warmth and professionalism.
Michelle is a gorgeous, curvy brunette ( was blonde, gone back to natural colour) with a laugh that’s absolutely contagious. She brings energy wherever she goes and, depending on the night, can be a bit of a player and a greedy girl—she’s even been known to start a few parties! She loves both women and men equally and is always up for some fun.
Doug is a tall, handsome silver fox who appreciates women of all shapes and sizes with a taste for a curvier woman. His tongue has some incredible talents—at least, according to Michelle! Hehehe. As we are regulars at other parties, Doug has taken the role as gatekeeper and shepherd at Intemperance. He remains clothed throughout the night to watch over the flock and be available immediately to attend a difficult situation shall the need arise. He may play on occasion if the opportunity arises and the party is running smoothly and safely enough for him to do so.
We love to play and understand the rules, but as hosts, our priority is making sure you feel completely comfortable as our guests.
Anyone who’s been on the scene for a while would probably know us. Whether you like us or not—that’s another question! Hahaha. Nah, we’re alright. 😉
We are quite protective of our relationship as we know this scene can be tough on couples who do not have clear boundaries. Our boundaries as a couple on this scene are very clear with ourselves.
If the party is not already started by 10.30pm, you can be assured Doug and Michelle will start the party!!! (Hence why there is no entry from 10.30pm)
Doug and Michelle
